Good bye 2013

Well as the year closes, we look back on our year. It's been a tough year emotionally for me.  It's still hard for me everyday to be happy. I have to make a conscious choice to be happy in the area of my little family. It hurts me to hear people complain about their children. What I wouldn't give to be exhausted because my child(ren) have been wild and crazy and wouldn't cooperate. I know that its not all rainbows and sunshine. I know that parenthood is hard, I am not an idiot. I hate being treated that way. When people say "don't you know how much your life will change?' or "you and BJ won't be able to just get up and go anymore if you have kids" No, shit....really? I have no common sense? I can't see that things will be different? I have a very strong feeling that BJ and I will be just fine if we are ever blessed with a child. We are independent enough that it will all be ok. 

Here is to 2014!!! I hope everyone has a great and prosperous year!!