It was never supposed to be this hard. What happened to all those speeches we get in health? Unprotected sex will cause pregnancy. Just don't have sex period.
Ugh.....I feel so horrible. I feel like if we would have tried for a baby when we first got married then maybe we wouldn't be where we are now. I KNOW we weren't ready for a baby then. Hell, we barley understood what "marriage" meant.
I believe that all my weight gain is from being stressed and depressed about the baby I lost. Yes, I am sure some of ya'll reading this will think "its been 4 years get over it" You have a miscarriage and tell me if you EVER get over the baby that you never met! It's not easy. You can consume yourself in other things. However, you can hear a baby cry, hold a new born, listen to the footsteps of a two year old running through a house and laughing and THEN you remember. You could have had a child of your own. A four year old. Someone who would have looked like their daddy and had your smile. You think of the sacrifices of your husband as he went on missions in Iraq and how you can not give him the one thing that he wants so badly. I would give my life to bring my husband a baby. I would do it knowing the consequences.
I don't think your ready for a baby at 18, I don't care how mature you think you are. Things happen for a reason yes, women who have babies that early can and are wonderful moms! I just know that at 18 and 20 neither I nor BJ were ready for that step!
I think now at 25 and 27 we are finally mature enough to understand what a baby entails. Expense, someone else to consider when making ANY decision.
I literally just wanna vomit. I don't understand anything. I don't understand why WHY why its not our turn.
xoxoxox
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